It's hard to be a social person
6 days ago
Tuesday, October 09, 2012
Love Thoughts
I know a grand number of people who, misguided by fantasies, have grand imaginings of what sharing a life with another means. Maybe for most, you'd smile indulgently and chalk it down to their age...if they are still young, that is. But what if the person is, for the most part, an adult? Not so cute is their naivete now, huh?
If you're only ever going to dream of grand adventures and holding hands 24/7 with abundant kisses, I will say, it could happen, but don't pull a long face when it isn't. Love isn't always candyfloss and sunshine, you gotta learn how to deal with the diabetes and sunburn every now and then.
No, I'm not saying love sours with age, rather, the other round. The better you get to know one another, the more those odd habits and annoying traits start to show through the flaws of hi or her character. But if you are together that long, chances are you already love them because of their flaws not in spite of it. You'll find out by then things aren't as rosey as you thought it would be. But the obstacles put ahead of you is what makes you a better team.
If you're gonna sulk if you don't get your way, or cry if it's not about kisses and candyhearts all the time, then perhaps you need sometime to grow up and understand the real mechanism of life.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
0 comment(s):
Post a Comment